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Harley Seelbinder

@roadawayfromporn

Helping men become better. Quit p*rn and build your dream life 📈

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A Wake-Up Call on the Hidden Dangers of Porn Addiction

In our journey to better understand and combat porn addiction, it's crucial we confront not just the addiction itself but the behaviors and reactions it can provoke. A recent conversation underscored the severity of this issue, highlighting a story that is both alarming and a call to action for all of us. A Disturbing Reaction to a Simple Question A young woman reached out to me for advice on addressing her boyfriend's porn addiction. With care and concern, we crafted a gentle approach for...

30 days ago • 2 min read

Feeling trapped in the shadow of porn addiction can cast a long, cold silhouette over the things that matter most. It’s not just about the habit; it’s about what it takes away from you—intimacy, trust, and the unspoken conversations with your partner. 🤵💔 The Cost of Addiction Lost Connections: The wedge driven between you and your partner grows, fueled by cycles of guilt and withdrawal. Isolation's Grip: What starts as a personal battle quickly spirals into isolation, leaving you feeling...

about 1 month ago • 1 min read

As someone who stands 500 days strong in freedom from porn, I've gained insights that might shift your perspective on overcoming addiction. It's common to count the days in an effort to measure progress, but here's why a different approach could be more beneficial for you. Counting Days: Is It Helping or Hindering? Knowing your progress, such as acknowledging a milestone of days free from porn, can be encouraging. However, the act of daily counting, marking each day as a notch on your belt of...

about 1 month ago • 2 min read

Ever feel trapped in a rut, goals slipping through your fingers no matter how hard you grip? You're not alone. Even the most driven men get derailed by life's curveballs and their own self-doubt. But there's a simple 3-step system to get you realigned and fired up to start making things happen. It's the same mentorship framework I use to routinely inspire guys in my circle to: Launch that business idea they've been sitting on Blow past fitness plateaus and feel unstoppable Strengthen bonds...

about 1 month ago • 2 min read

Hey Friend, Harley here... We've all been there - making flimsy justifications to avoid taking responsibility. But the truth is, excuses just hold us back from growing into our highest selves. Here are 3 of the lamest ones guys spout way too often: • "I Don't Have Time" ⌚ This is an absolute lie that we tell ourselves You have 16 waking hours in a day - make time for your priorities or don't, but don't pretend you "can't" • "It's Her Fault Our Relationship Sucks" 👉 Stop shifting blame onto...

about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Hey Friend, Harley here... I might get in trouble for this one, but I think hookup culture is an utter disgrace. The idea of casually having sex with strangers you don't know is not just awkward, it's deeply damaging. A Path to Emptiness 😔 Hookup culture leaves people feeling empty, alone, isolated and depressed. Why would you ever want to inflict that on yourself? Having meaningless sexual encounters tells your partner "I don't care about you as a human being." It tells yourself "I have so...

about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Hey Friend, Harley here... The men in our brotherhood are seeing truly remarkable results from breaking free of porn addiction. Their stories are a powerful testament to the life-changing impact of quitting this insidious habit. Mike (Leader) - His fiancée was ready to call off the wedding until he removed porn from his life. Now with porn behind him, their relationship has been revived and the wedding is back on track. Chaz (Leader) - After overcoming harder drug addictions, he took on...

about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Hey Friend, Harley here... Feeling stuck and like you can't accomplish your biggest goals? You're not alone. But this research-backed accountability method can almost guarantee your success. The American Society of Training and Development (ASTD) studied what separates those who achieve their goals from those who don't. Here's the probability breakdown: 10% Chance: 💡 If you simply have an idea or goal in mind 25% Chance: 🫵 If you consciously decide "I WILL do it!" 40% Chance: ⌚ If you decide...

about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Hey Friend, Harley here... I know many guys, especially Christian men, who are in relationships but still battling a porn problem. The common justification is "well, at least it's better than premarital sex." But here's the hard truth - in many ways, porn is actually more damaging to your future marriage than premarital sex. It Rewires Your Brain 💻 When you watch porn, you're training your brain to be aroused by unlimited novelty - dozens of new women performing endless sexual acts on demand....

about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Hey Friend, Harley here... Let's face it guys, in today's dating environment it can feel nearly impossible to meet an amazing, mature woman you can envision as a long-term partner. Between the prevalence of superficial online dating and people's general tendency to stick to their social bubbles, the odds of crossing paths with quality singles can seem pretty low. But don't give up! The right woman is out there - you just need to look in the right places. Forget the bar scene - that's not...

about 2 months ago • 2 min read
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