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The Top 3 Weakest Excuses Men Make πŸ’©

Published about 2 months agoΒ β€’Β 1 min read

Hey Friend,

Harley here...

We've all been there - making flimsy justifications to avoid taking responsibility. But the truth is, excuses just hold us back from growing into our highest selves.

Here are 3 of the lamest ones guys spout way too often:

β€’ "I Don't Have Time" ⌚

  • This is an absolute lie that we tell ourselves
  • You have 16 waking hours in a day - make time for your priorities or don't, but don't pretend you "can't"

β€’ "It's Her Fault Our Relationship Sucks" πŸ‘‰

  • Stop shifting blame onto your partner for problems you've co-created
  • You chose to commit to this person, so take radical ownership
  • A real man steps up, not endlessly criticizes

β€’ "I Can Get Through Life Without Vulnerability" 🚫

  • Emotional constipation is not a badge of honor, it's emotional unintelligence
  • Vulnerability is the core of human connection, masculinity and growth
  • Keep pretending you're too tough, and you'll stunt yourself

At the end of the day, making excuses is a coping mechanism to avoid hard truths about ourselves. It's the path of mediocrity.

I like surrounding myself with men who take radical responsibility and focus on real solutions - not flimsy justifications. When the bullshit excuses stop, that's when the growth starts.

If you want to join a brotherhood of accountable high-achievers, book a call to see if it's a good fit. We meet consistently to quit making excuses and level up our lives instead. The choice is yours.


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Your friend,

Harley

Harley Seelbinder

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