The Secret Relationship Killer: Why Porn is Worse Than Premarital Sex π¨
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Hey Friend, Harley here... I know many guys, especially Christian men, who are in relationships but still battling a porn problem. The common justification is "well, at least it's better than premarital sex." But here's the hard truth - in many ways, porn is actually more damaging to your future marriage than premarital sex. It Rewires Your Brain π» When you watch porn, you're training your brain to be aroused by unlimited novelty - dozens of new women performing endless sexual acts on demand. Your wife can't possibly compete against that unrealistic template hardwired into your mind. It Breeds Dissatisfaction π Porn conditions you to constantly crave the excitement of new visual stimuli. In contrast, a healthy married sex life often involves familiarity and periods of abstinence. Porn makes it harder to be satisfied with the intimacy of one woman. It Disconnects You π§ββοΈ Real sex is about connection, giving pleasure, and being fully present. But porn teaches you to selfishly take and discard endless images of objectified women without intimacy. Your wife deserves a man who wants to cherish her, not use her. The truth? Premarital sex, while not ideal, at least maintains the mental pattern of being sexually satisfied by one real person. But porn shapes your sexuality in toxic ways that wreak havoc on marriages. If you want a thriving sex life and passionate connection with your future spouse, don't wait until the wedding night to quit porn. That ED and lack of arousal is what happens when you let this insidious habit breed for years. DM me "NOW" on IG to get the support and tools you need to rewire your brain for real, fulfilling marital intimacy. Your wife and marriage are worth it.
Your friend, Harley |
Harley Seelbinder
@roadawayfromporn
Helping men become better. Quit p*rn and build your dream life π
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